Two girls sitting in my office pantry, discussing. I wasn’t really paying attention to what they were saying until I heard the magic phrase, Can you wear Westerns when your in-laws are around?
Girl 1: Can you wear western clothes when your in-laws are around?
Girl 2: I do wear it but not often when we are at their place.
Girl 1: Why?
Girl 2: She (the mother-in-law I assume) mentioned that it is not a nice thing to wear such clothes around your father-in-law. I tried to wear capris instead of jeans but she asked me to change out of them.
Girl 1: In my case, I am not allowed at all to wear these clothes at my in-laws. Even suits (salwar-kameez) are not ok. They only want me to wear sarees. What is worse is her daughter — my husband’s sister — is allowed to wear jeans in the house. It’s just not fair.
Girl 2: Yeah.. it’s not.. mumbling into the conversation
I don’t know what to say.. as I heard this. My heart sank and I wanted to comfort them. Tell them not everyone thinks like their in-laws. People are definitely moving beyond how things should be. Aren’t they
But I don’t know. With our regressive trend, it was a depressing end to their conversation.