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I am not a very ambitious person. It is something my mother realised long before I did but being one to want to rush up ladders and get to bigger and better positions has not been my aim.

I enjoy the work I do.. most times and other times do it because there is at least some part I enjoy in the process. But other times I love to sleep or stare mindlessly into space or visit books from my childhood but not necessarily spend every other waking moment taking care of the house and chores and the next meal and a new batch of laundry.

If I am not obsessed about my work, does it have to mean I have to be obsessed about housework, bettering me health and generally putting myself last in the order of things?

Am not exactly sure what it is that bothers me.. but the why do I need to choose one side? And if I am not ambitious.. does it mean I want to be married? I dont know but I certainly think not.

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  1. i saw this play sometime back in which the husband accuses his wife of not being ambitious enough. the wife in response asks – isn’t wanting to lead a clean, good life ambition enough?
    sadly most ppl these days consider it isn’t.

  2. There are sides and there are sides. Not getting married and getting married are two sides. Then once you get married…staying married or getting out of it is again two sides..it’s endless. And I think there is fun in that.

    Anyway, I always thought I was ambitious, but my biggest problem is that I cannot finish what I start. So, that’s the problem I am working on now.

    Anyway, whatever I know of you, and I think we are similar at some level…you do not like being told what to do. Most people think that if you don’t WANT to have something, then you are incapable of making decisions, and they will happily do it for you. Just allow them their trespasses. You just smile and make plans to watch Ratatouilee with me. 🙂

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