Just read this.
And realised it’s very true. You tend to get noticed more if you are thin. I’ve learnt this the hard way. I haven’t even gotten close to becoming ‘thin” but the little weight I lost made people closest to me so competitive that I shut up about the process.
I have discovered that nothing like encouragement and swapping tips when it comes to weight loss. It’s the most invigorating discussion. But not with people who treat you differently because now *they* notice you.